I recently interviewed Megwyn White, director of education at Satisfyer, for my podcast The Orgasmic Lifestyle. You can listen to the episode here. In it, she talked about erotic plasticity, which is similar to neuroplasticity, in that it is about creating new erotic responses to new stimuli.
Erotic plasticity has to do with being open to variety, adding flavour, colour, exploration, and texture to the erotic experience.
So many people tend to do the same thing over and over when it comes to sex. They rely on tried and tested methods rather than teaching themselves new things. I must admit, that I was exactly the same many moons ago…
My sex toy fascination began over 15 years ago and when I was able to have sheet-gripping orgasms from my rabbit vibrator, I was euphoric. Before that, I relied on men to give me orgasms and this often meant ending up in emotionally toxic relationships, just because the sex was good. Needless to say, discovering rabbit vibrators and taking control of my own pleasure was emotionally liberating as well as being physically enjoyable.
But then I got kind of addicted to those delicious rabbit ears and the sensation of a vibrating phallus inside me at the same time. I thought I needed dual stimulation to get off. I had acquired some other sex toys such as bullet vibrators and a couple of lay-ons, but after much effort, they just didn’t do it for me.
Then, one day, just as I was about to have an epic orgasm with my rabbit vibrator, it sadly died on me. At first, I thought it was the batteries, so I ran to the lounge and took removed the batteries from my remote control (yet again) and tried them in my vibrator, hoping to finish what I has started. Despite my efforts, it was no good. I did my very best to resuscitate my beloved bunny vibe, but it was too late. It had died.
I couldn’t afford to buy a new one so I had to make do with what I had. So and after a lot of trials and testing with my other toys, I made it work. I discovered that the fantasy world in my head was the true protagonist of my self-pleasure sessions, and once I had made this realisation along with my increased mind-body connection, I learned to have orgasms with almost any sex toy.
If this sounds familiar to you, I would strongly encourage you to give up your tried and tested method of reaching climax for a while and concentrate on new ways. This will help you to increase your erotic plasticity. It will definitely be worth it. I couldn’t be a successful sex toy reviewer without having achieved my own erotic plasticity.
I must confess that bullet vibrators are not my first choice of preferred pleasure product, but they certainly do the job.
Ultra Power Bullet 4 from Satisfyer is one of a new series of bullet vibrators from Satisfyer that is small, discreet and super powerful. The entire series is super strong, but there are variations in shape and some are app-controlled.
PACKAGING: is presented in a hard box with a perforated hygiene seal. Inside you will find a magnetic USB charger, a user manual, safety information and some guarantee information in several languages.
MATERIAL: It is made of body-safe silicone and is compatible with water-based lubricants. It is also waterproof which makes it easy to wash. You can also enjoy it in the bath or the shower.
STRENGTH OF MOTOR: Deep, rumbly and strong, despite its small size. There are 12 pleasure patterns to enjoy.
NOISE LEVEL: Nothing scandalous.
USABILITY: Very intuitive to use. There is one button to use to switch on or off and to scroll through the 12 vibration programmes. It is easy to hold and you can use the tip of the toy if you enjoy direct clitoral stimulation. You can use the tapered tip for a less direct sensation. You can also use it to massage different parts of the body or for tickling the soles of the feet or the armpits or your waist if you enjoy erotic tickling.
ORGASM-O-BILITY: Thanks to the nice rumbly motor, I had some very nice orgasms with Ultra Power Bullet 4.
PROS: Discreet. Ergonomic. Bright colour. Super strong motor. Waterproof. Hygiene seal on the packaging.
CONS: I can’t think of anything. It serves its purpose perfectly. But if you like bigger toys, this isn’t for you.
IDEAL FOR:
- Pinpoint, direct clitoral stimulation.
- Using it on its side for indirect stimulation.
- Rolling it over your partner’s back during a massage.
- Anyone looking for a discreet vibrator.
For more information about Ultra Power Bullet 4 Vibrator from Satisfyer, visit www.satisfyer.com