"My mission is to encourage others to use their sexual energy in an empowering way and to eat more plants."

Raising orgasmic awareness. Author. British expat in Spain. Sex toy tester & designer. Brand Ambassador for Satisfyer. YouTuber. Fetishist. Feminist. Vegan. Yogini. Zen. Creator of The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast. 

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What you can find on this website:


A complete glossary of fetishes with over 50 kinks. We all have a fetish, what’s yours?


Reviews and recommendations of the very best pleasure products by sex toy tester Venus O’Hara


A private area with the best photos. No text to distract you, just images.


Every day is a climax. Here I interview thought leaders in the fields of personal development, health, nutrition, spirituality, and more.


Articles on how to enhance your intimate relationships as well as dating tips for singles.


Discover my unique ASMR whispering affirmation meditations on a range of different topics from health, abundance, prosperity and sexual wellness.

In the Blog

Venus O'Hara - Lipstick Fetish
Fetish Glossary

Lipstick Fetish

The popularity of the lipstick fetish can be explained quite simply; some colours, particularly red, when applied to a woman’s facial lips make a direct ...
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Submission - Venus O'Hara
Collar Fetish

Types of Submission – Venus O’Hara

In BDSM a bottom or submissive is the partner in a BDSM relationship or a BDSM scene who takes the passive, receiving, or obedient role, ...
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Armpit Fetish

Amaurophilia (Blindfold Fetish) – Venus O’Hara

Blindfolds possess unique fetishistic potential. They are particularly potent when used to experiment with the sensory deprivation of a pliable submissive. There is a key ...
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Armpit Fetish


In BDSM, a top or dominant is the partner in a BDSM relationship or in a BDSM scene who takes the active or controlling role ...
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Armpit Fetish

Silence: the use of gags in BDSM

A gag can be worn during some bondage and BDSM role-plays. The person who wears it is usually regarded as being the submissive partner, while ...
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Fetish Glossary

Glasses Fetish – Venus O’Hara

These days, looking like a geek is sexy. Even though I don’t need glasses, I have a glasses fetish. People who wear glasses have an instant ...
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flavour - venus o'hara
Fetish Glossary

The Taste and Flavour of Sex – Venus O’Hara

Smell and taste allow us to appreciate the only things we ever, truly, possess-our memories. It is through retrieving them that we retain the full ...
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Armpit Fetish

Clothes Ripping Fetish – Venus O’Hara

Whenever I get bored with a piece of clothing I tend to take a pair of scissors and I cut it up. When I was ...
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smoking tease - venus o'hara
Armpit Fetish

Smoking Tease

Since becoming a fetish model I’ve had numerous requests for smoking fetish pictures. Smoking fetishists are very particular about certain, vital, details within the imagery ...
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neck fetish - venus o'hara
Armpit Fetish

Neck Fetish

I forget how effective my rebellious red curls are as a shield for my neck; it feels so covered up when I wear it down. ...
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Armpit Fetish

Love Me Like You Hate Me – Teaser

I recently made my acting debut in the acclaimed short film “Love Me Like You Hate Me”, written and directed by Erika Lust, (Lust Films ...
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Fetish Glossary

Redhead Venus Fetish

Red hair often gets the wrong type of attention. Its rarity often means that many redheads get singled out and are called names like “carrot-top” ...
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