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What you can find on this website:
FETISH GLOSSARY
A complete glossary of fetishes with over 50 kinks. We all have a fetish, what’s yours?
SEX TOY REVIEWS
Reviews and recommendations of the very best pleasure products by sex toy tester Venus O’Hara
THE ORGASMIC LIFESTYLE PODCAST
Every day is a climax. Here I interview thought leaders in the fields of personal development, health, nutrition, spirituality, and more.
SEX & RELATIONSHIPS
Articles on how to enhance your intimate relationships as well as dating tips for singles.
MEDITATIONS
Discover my unique ASMR whispering affirmation meditations on a range of different topics from health, abundance, prosperity and sexual wellness.
In the Blog
Poem: Farewell My Siren
FAREWELL MY SIREN (For Venus) The blood red roses have died in the vase, Their long stems wilted, And the thorns blunted That so exquisitely …
The Fetish Appeal of Masks
In ancient Rome, persona meant ‘a mask’ and the word mask came via French masque and either Italian maschera or Spanish máscara and its possible …
Glasses (Geek Fetish) – Venus O’Hara
Glasses alter a face completely. People who wear glasses are often perceived as intelligent or sometimes as geeks. Luckily I have excellent vision so I …
Secretarial Duties
I just love looking at old pictures from my days as Tilly Johnson, Erotic Review secretary performing some random secretarial duties. The main title image …
Behind Bars – Cage Fetish
When an exotic creature is kept imprisoned behind bars it is the interested spectators inability to look away from it that determines the length of …
No Pain, No Gain (BDSM)
Pain has always been a part of accepted behaviour in conventional sexual relationships. The loss of control that defines the act itself anticipates scratching and …
Rose Flagellation
A red rose is the very definition of romantic delirium even if its stem is an emblem for potential pain. Flagellation or flogging is the …
Bathing Suit
I knew that I needed something colourful to wear for the upcoming photo-shoot so I searched through my cupboards and draws and dug out the …
Remembering my Time in Paris – Venus O’Hara
Photos by David Vega I remember my first ever French lesson at high school vividly. I listened attentively and took special care with my usually messy …
Trying to Walk in Fetish Heels – Venus O’Hara
The height of a female dominant’s heels is a particularly valuable device for emphasising her superiority in a BDSM relationship both physically and psychologically. The …
Modelling the Orgasm Dress – Venus O’Hara
My good friend Carolina Medrano asked me to model her “orgasm dress” which was part of her Masters Degree in Fashion Design. I was more …
Apron Fetish – Venus O’Hara
In Japan, the word Hadaka means nude and when it is paired with apron, a particular fetish is described. The term Hadaka apron is used …
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