"My mission is to encourage others to use their sexual energy in an empowering way and to eat more plants."

Raising orgasmic awareness. Author. British expat in Spain. Sex toy tester & designer. Brand Ambassador for Satisfyer. YouTuber. Fetishist. Feminist. Vegan. Yogini. Zen. Creator of The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast. 

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What you can find on this website:


A complete glossary of fetishes with over 50 kinks. We all have a fetish, what’s yours?


Reviews and recommendations of the very best pleasure products by sex toy tester Venus O’Hara


A private area with the best photos. No text to distract you, just images.


Every day is a climax. Here I interview thought leaders in the fields of personal development, health, nutrition, spirituality, and more.


Articles on how to enhance your intimate relationships as well as dating tips for singles.


Discover my unique ASMR whispering affirmation meditations on a range of different topics from health, abundance, prosperity and sexual wellness.

In the Blog

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Armpit Fetish

Why I Love Mismatched Underwear – Venus O’Hara

Most women imagine that the classic image of a suspender set with a push-up bra is what gets their man going. However, research has proven …

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Long hair fetish Venus O'Hara - Yuky
Fetish Glossary

The Growth of Long Hair Fetish

The long hair fetish is particularly important to those who associate it with a woman’s animal nature, with the unruliness of female sexuality. Trichophilia or …

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Venus O'Hara Vintage Fetish
Fetish Glossary

Vintage Fetish: When Old Things Turn You On

Old things really turn me on, I don’t know why exactly. There are certainly sensual attractions to antique objects and places that go beyond the …

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Bathroom Sex by Venus O'Hara
Fetish Glossary

Bathroom Sex – Wet Clothes Fetish

I’d been thinking about shooting a wet clothes fetish set for a long time but,when it happened, it was fast, instinctive and exciting. I was …

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Thigh-high fetish

Thigh-high boots are considered by many to be erotic or kinky. They are used as fetish clothing in boot fetishism and shoe fetishism. Cheaper thigh-high …

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Venus O'Hara Feline Fetish
Fetish Glossary

My Fur Fetish – Venus O’Hara

Fur is, perhaps, the most ancient form of clothing. Some people associate it with warmth and luxury while others, on principle, reject it on terms …

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Hot Redhead Venus O'Hara
Fetish Glossary

There’s never been a better time to be a redhead.

A new study has found that there’s never been a better time to be a redhead. It’s author, an authority in sexual genetics has proved …

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Venus in Furs by Venus O'Hara

Venus in Furs – My Favourite Book

Venus in Furs by Leopold von Sacher-Masoch is my favourite book. An influential lover gave it to me as an instruction manual, to educate me, …

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Collar Fetish

Hoodie Fetish

The hoodie fetish went mainstream on every news channel, in every country, this summer. Between 6th and 10th August, numerous London districts and – in …

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Apron Fetish

Cleaning Fetish Confessions – Venus O’Hara

After a long day at work, cleaning is the last thing on anyone’s mind. It still has to be done though and many specialist agencies …

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Venus O'Hara food and sex
Fetish Glossary

Food and Sex

They say that people eat food in the same way that they have sex. In my case, it’s absolutely true. I’m a fussy eater and …

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Venus O'Hara Double lives
Fetish Glossary

Confessions of Double Lives – Venus O’Hara

Being a Gemini-the starsign of the twins – I identify with people who maintain and enjoys double lives. I’m a natural double-lifer myself and this allows …

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