"My mission is to encourage others to use their sexual energy in an empowering way and to eat more plants."

Raising orgasmic awareness. Author. British expat in Spain. Sex toy tester & designer. Brand Ambassador for Satisfyer. YouTuber. Fetishist. Feminist. Vegan. Yogini. Zen. Creator of The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast. 

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What you can find on this website:


A complete glossary of fetishes with over 50 kinks. We all have a fetish, what’s yours?


Reviews and recommendations of the very best pleasure products by sex toy tester Venus O’Hara


A private area with the best photos. No text to distract you, just images.


Every day is a climax. Here I interview thought leaders in the fields of personal development, health, nutrition, spirituality, and more.


Articles on how to enhance your intimate relationships as well as dating tips for singles.


Discover my unique ASMR whispering affirmation meditations on a range of different topics from health, abundance, prosperity and sexual wellness.

In the Blog

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Fetish Glossary

The Taste and Flavour of Sex – Venus O’Hara

Smell and taste allow us to appreciate the only things we ever, truly, possess-our memories. It is through retrieving them that we retain the full …

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Armpit Fetish

Clothes Ripping Fetish – Venus O’Hara

Whenever I get bored with a piece of clothing I tend to take a pair of scissors and I cut it up. When I was …

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Armpit Fetish

Smoking Tease

Since becoming a fetish model I’ve had numerous requests for smoking fetish pictures. Smoking fetishists are very particular about certain, vital, details within the imagery …

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Armpit Fetish

Neck Fetish

I forget how effective my rebellious red curls are as a shield for my neck; it feels so covered up when I wear it down. …

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Armpit Fetish

Love Me Like You Hate Me – Teaser

I recently made my acting debut in the acclaimed short film “Love Me Like You Hate Me”, written and directed by Erika Lust, (Lust Films …

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Fetish Glossary

Redhead Venus Fetish

Red hair often gets the wrong type of attention. Its rarity often means that many redheads get singled out and are called names like “carrot-top” …

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Bridal Fetish

Does Bridal Fetish Exist? – Venus O’Hara

“When a bride looks sexy, the wedding guests get nervous” Venus O’Hara 2010 Plenty of men are into the bridal fetish. Traditionally, a bride, dressed …

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Fetish Glossary

Full Natural Lips Fetish – Venus O’Hara

I adore the supremacy of my lips; I love their plumpness and the cupid’s bow that they fall into so easily. When I look at …

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Farewell My Siren
Armpit Fetish

Poem: Farewell My Siren

FAREWELL MY SIREN (For Venus) The blood red roses have died in the vase, Their long stems wilted, And the thorns blunted That so exquisitely …

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Armpit Fetish

The Fetish Appeal of Masks

In ancient Rome, persona meant  ‘a mask’ and the word mask came via French masque and either Italian maschera or Spanish máscara and its possible …

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Fetish Glossary

Glasses (Geek Fetish) – Venus O’Hara

Glasses alter a face completely. People who wear glasses are often perceived as intelligent or sometimes as geeks. Luckily I have excellent vision so I …

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Fetish Glossary

Secretarial Duties

I just love looking at old pictures from my days as Tilly Johnson, Erotic Review secretary performing some random secretarial duties. The main title image …

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