"My mission is to encourage others to use their sexual energy in an empowering way and to eat more plants."

Raising orgasmic awareness. Author. British expat in Spain. Sex toy tester & designer. Brand Ambassador for Satisfyer. YouTuber. Fetishist. Feminist. Vegan. Yogini. Zen. Creator of The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast. 

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What you can find on this website:


A complete glossary of fetishes with over 50 kinks. We all have a fetish, what’s yours?


Reviews and recommendations of the very best pleasure products by sex toy tester Venus O’Hara


A private area with the best photos. No text to distract you, just images.


Every day is a climax. Here I interview thought leaders in the fields of personal development, health, nutrition, spirituality, and more.


Articles on how to enhance your intimate relationships as well as dating tips for singles.


Discover my unique ASMR whispering affirmation meditations on a range of different topics from health, abundance, prosperity and sexual wellness.

In the Blog

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Feminism Vs Femdom

Feminism has got a bad name over the years for a variety of reasons. Mostly, in our hypersexual culture of eroticised imagery, it commits the …

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Fetish Glossary

New Year, New Vibrator

Many people make New Year’s resolutions and a few even intend to keep them, for a while at least. I’m not a resolution person. Not …

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Fetish Glossary

Making the Most of your Unwanted Christmas Presents

I can always turn unwanted presents to my advantage. For me, the definition of an ideal present is one that you didn’t imagine that you …

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Fetish Glossary

Motorbike Fetish

When I think of the motorbike fetish I remember the film Grease 2. The character of Stephanie, played by Michelle Pfeiffer, has a very specific …

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BDSM for Beginners – Terminology

BDSM is a perfect festive treat for the Christmas holidays. That’s fine if you know what you’re doing. You might be new to BDSM. You …

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Fetish Glossary

5 Winter Fetishes

Winter fetishes need to be enjoyed by everyone when they have the chance. Sometimes, it’s the short period of time that you can appreciate them …

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Fetish Glossary

Official Calendar 2012 – Fetishism Without Photoshop

Photoshop is the enemy of fetishism and I didn’t want any of my calendar images for 2012 to be photoshopped in any way. I wanted …

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Fetish Glossary

Loving Leather (Leather Fetish)

Loving leather has never been difficult for me. I’ve always had a leather fetish – the smell of it and its coldness against my naked …

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Fetish Glossary

Farewell to the Thong (Thong Fetish)

Many people are relieved that the thong is becoming a thing of the past.They flattered great derrieres but didn’t do much to improve the view …

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Fetish Glossary

Tights Fetish

The tights fetish is back where it belongs – on the high street, in the fashion magazines and being flaunted by women of all shapes …

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Fetish Glossary

Long Hair Sex

I didn’t know much about long hair sex until I grew mine. Whenever I see a woman – with a beautiful mane of long hair- …

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Fetish Glossary

The Power of a Bodystocking

I found the package containing the fishnet bodystocking in my P.O. Box. It had been sent from the U.K. and was a sweet surprise. My …

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