"My mission is to encourage others to use their sexual energy in an empowering way and to eat more plants."

Raising orgasmic awareness. Author. British expat in Spain. Sex toy tester & designer. Brand Ambassador for Satisfyer. YouTuber. Fetishist. Feminist. Vegan. Yogini. Zen. Creator of The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast. 

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What you can find on this website:


A complete glossary of fetishes with over 50 kinks. We all have a fetish, what’s yours?


Reviews and recommendations of the very best pleasure products by sex toy tester Venus O’Hara


A private area with the best photos. No text to distract you, just images.


Every day is a climax. Here I interview thought leaders in the fields of personal development, health, nutrition, spirituality, and more.


Articles on how to enhance your intimate relationships as well as dating tips for singles.


Discover my unique ASMR whispering affirmation meditations on a range of different topics from health, abundance, prosperity and sexual wellness.

In the Blog

Sex with an Audience
Erotic Stories

Sex with an Audience – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

If someone had told me that I would have sex in front of a group of strangers, I would never have believed them. It was …

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Erotic Stories

Provocative Posing – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

  I’m such a poser. I love cameras. As soon as I see one, I automatically go into pose mode. I pout, smile and devour …

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BDSM Stories

My First Whip – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

  They say that you never forget the first time. That is very true. I will never forget buying my first whip when I was …

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venus entrevista
BDSM Stories

In The Dark – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

There I was, at a sex toy stand at the Erotic Fair in Madrid, looking at my phone for the umpteenth time scrolling aimlessly as …

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Sex & Relationships

Understanding and supporting student sexual orientation

Understanding and Supporting Student Sexual Orientation In the dynamic landscape of 21st-century education, the understanding and support of student sexual orientation is no longer optional—it’s …

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Sex & Relationships

The role of education in improving student sexual health

It is a very common opinion that many problems in people’s lives are caused by a lack of education. The statement can be questionable, but …

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Sex & Relationships

Students and Protection Against Sexually Transmitted Infections: Common Problems and Precautions

When it comes to students and protection against sexually transmitted infections (STIs), there are important problems and precautions to be aware of. Yet, many young …

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friend with benefits
BDSM Stories

My BDSM Buddy – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

Sometimes I don’t realize the effect that I have on people. A few years ago I had a work colleague who was my partner in …

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previous jobs
Erotic Stories

Corsetry Customs – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

It has to be a very special occasion indeed for me to indulge in corsetry customs. An authentic commitment to those protocols also requires the …

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orgasm a day
BDSM Stories

Confessions of a Submissatrix – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

Topping from the bottom is a practice that is usually frowned upon in the BDSM world. But, when I am being a submissatrix – that …

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Erotic Stories

Confessions of a Fetish Model – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

A photoshoot isn’t just a moment for the model or the photographer. As I pose, I’m very aware that I’m also showcasing the talents of …

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Celebrating Masturbation May with LELO
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Celebrating Masturbation May with LELO! Featuring GIGI 2

I love the month of May. Not only is it my birthday this month but it’s also International Masturbation Month. As an orgasm activist, this …

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