"My mission is to encourage others to use their sexual energy in an empowering way and to eat more plants."
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Raising orgasmic awareness. Author. British expat in Spain. Sex toy tester & designer. Brand Ambassador for Satisfyer. YouTuber. Fetishist. Feminist. Vegan. Yogini. Zen. Creator of The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast. 

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What you can find on this website:


A complete glossary of fetishes with over 50 kinks. We all have a fetish, what’s yours?


Reviews and recommendations of the very best pleasure products by sex toy tester Venus O’Hara


A private area with the best photos. No text to distract you, just images.


Every day is a climax. Here I interview thought leaders in the fields of personal development, health, nutrition, spirituality, and more.


Articles on how to enhance your intimate relationships as well as dating tips for singles.


Discover my unique ASMR whispering affirmation meditations on a range of different topics from health, abundance, prosperity and sexual wellness.

In the Blog

The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast

Open Her: Activate 7 Masculine Powers to Arouse Your Woman’s Love & Desire

Reclaim Your Power with Karen Brody, World-Class Man Coach and Best-Selling Author of “Open Her: Activate 7 Masculine Powers to Arouse Your Woman’s Love & …

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Fetish Glossary

Fetish Dating vs Vanilla Dating

In the real world, the first piece of information that you usually learn about someone is their name and profession. In the fetish world, however, …

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Dr. Fuhrman
The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast

Eat to Live with Dr. Joel Fuhrman Best-Selling Author and Internationally Recognised Expert on Nutrition

Eat to Live with Dr. Joel Fuhrman, Seven-Time New York Times Best-Selling Author and Internationally Recognised Expert on Nutrition and Natural Healing   Dr. Joel …

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Sex & Relationships

What Happens When Fantasies Come True?

They say that you should be careful what you wish for. And not because you just might get it, as the Pussycat Dolls sang. The …

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Sex & Relationships

4 Ways To Have A Hot, Intimate Time With Your Partner

  Intimacy is important in every relationship. When intimate time is lacking, both partners can feel lonely and disconnected from the other. This blog post …

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sexual health
Sex & Relationships

Men’s Health: How To Improve Your Sexual Health

  The proportion of men want to improve their own and their partners’ enjoyment and contentment during sexual activity. Focusing solely on sex life, on …

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Online dating
Sex & Relationships

Unexpected Things I Experienced When Dating Online

Online dating is all the rage. To some, it may sound awkward, and a tad weird, because you’re meeting strangers. Some people meet the love …

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Fetish Glossary

Fetishists in the Closet

  A fetish is something that you usually keep as a secret. Only you and your Google search history know the nature and real extent …

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The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast

Interview with Janey Lee Grace – Author of Happy Healthy Sober

In this episode of The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast, Venus is joined by BBC Radio Presenter, Author, and Natural Wellbeing Expert Janey Lee Grace to discuss …

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Dr. Laurie Mintz
The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast

Becoming Cliterate with Dr. Laurie Mintz, Author of “Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters And How to Get It”

In the first-ever episode of The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast, Venus is joined by Feminist Professor, Author, and Therapist Dr Laurie Mintz to discuss her best …

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The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast

Why I Decided to Launch a Podcast – The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast

I am very excited to announce the launch of my brand new podcast: The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast by Venus O’Hara.  I’m here to welcome you …

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Sex & Relationships

Male Sexual Enhancement Drugs: To Buy or Not to Buy?

1 day, 2 days, 3 days…1 week, 2 weeks, 3 weeks…1 month! Okay, it’s safe to say: Houston, we’ve got a problem! You start surfing …

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