"My mission is to encourage others to use their sexual energy in an empowering way and to eat more plants."

Raising orgasmic awareness. Author. British expat in Spain. Sex toy tester & designer. Brand Ambassador for Satisfyer. YouTuber. Fetishist. Feminist. Vegan. Yogini. Zen. Creator of The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast. 

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What you can find on this website:


A complete glossary of fetishes with over 50 kinks. We all have a fetish, what’s yours?


Reviews and recommendations of the very best pleasure products by sex toy tester Venus O’Hara


A private area with the best photos. No text to distract you, just images.


Every day is a climax. Here I interview thought leaders in the fields of personal development, health, nutrition, spirituality, and more.


Articles on how to enhance your intimate relationships as well as dating tips for singles.


Discover my unique ASMR whispering affirmation meditations on a range of different topics from health, abundance, prosperity and sexual wellness.

In the Blog

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Clitoral Stimulators

Twirling Fun – Tip Vibrator – Satisfyer – Review

A few years ago, I had the privilege of receiving a tantric massage. I’ll never forget it. I learned so much about my body thanks …

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The Koi – The World’s Most Sustainable Wand Massager – Love Not War – Review

I like living a simple life with a small number of high-quality possessions. After moving apartments over 20 times in my adult life, I can …

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Kama Sutra
The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast

The Arts of Seduction with Seema Anand, Mythologist, Kama Sutra Expert, and Author of “The Arts of Seduction”

Seema Anand, Author of “The Arts of Seduction,” joins The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast by Venus O’Hara. They discuss how stories define our identities, the original …

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Clitoral Stimulators

Ultra Power Bullet 4 Vibrator from Satisfyer – Sex Toy Review

I recently interviewed Megwyn White, director of education at Satisfyer, for my podcast The Orgasmic Lifestyle. You can listen to the episode here. In it, …

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Clitoral Suction Toys

Lucky Libra Air Pulse + Vibration from Satisfyer – Review

Although I’m not a Libra, I’m still an air sign. I am Gemini and I would consider myself to be typical. I’m a good communicator. …

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Little Secret Panty Vibrator from Satisfyer – Review

Everyone has secrets. Sometimes we share them with friends we trust. Other times, we keep them all to ourselves.  Little Secret, a panty vibe from …

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The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast

Orgasm Prescriptions & Self-Love with Dr Andrea Pennington, Integrative Physician, Acupuncturist, Meditation Teacher, and Sex Educator

Dr Andrea Pennington, an integrative physician, acupuncturist, meditation teacher, and sex educator, joins The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast by Venus O’Hara. They discuss her book, “The …

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Budget Sex Toys

Rose Vibrator from Amazon – Sex Toy Review

‘I thought women liked chocolates and flowers,’ a male friend recently told me when I was explaining the technical advances in the world of sex …

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Sex & Relationships

What Is Water-Based Lube And Why You Need It

Have you ever used a water-based lubricant? If not, you’re missing out! The reason this type of lubricant is so special is that it does …

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Clitoral Stimulators

Moonflow from Osuga – Sex Toy Review

This elegant vibrator from Osuga could be the most elegant sex toy that I have had the privilege of receiving this year. It has a …

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Sex & Relationships

Is oral sex really safe? Science says no

Medically reviewed by: Dr. Kimberly Langdon (M.D) on 13 November 2021.   The following material may not be apt for young audiences, since it contains …

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Sex & Relationships

Ways to boost your sex life

Our sex life is an important though often overlooked part of our life. Whether you are in a relationship or enjoying a single life, there …

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