"My mission is to encourage others to use their sexual energy in an empowering way and to eat more plants."

Raising orgasmic awareness. Author. British expat in Spain. Sex toy tester & designer. Brand Ambassador for Satisfyer. YouTuber. Fetishist. Feminist. Vegan. Yogini. Zen. Creator of The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast. 

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What you can find on this website:


A complete glossary of fetishes with over 50 kinks. We all have a fetish, what’s yours?


Reviews and recommendations of the very best pleasure products by sex toy tester Venus O’Hara


A private area with the best photos. No text to distract you, just images.


Every day is a climax. Here I interview thought leaders in the fields of personal development, health, nutrition, spirituality, and more.


Articles on how to enhance your intimate relationships as well as dating tips for singles.


Discover my unique ASMR whispering affirmation meditations on a range of different topics from health, abundance, prosperity and sexual wellness.

In the Blog

An Orgasmic NYE
Erotic Stories

An Orgasmic NYE by Venus O’Hara

Here in Spain, the Holiday season is very different from the British New Year I grew up with where getting wasted and kissing strangers was …

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Erotic Stories

Wishlist by Venus O’Hara

There are so many things I want to do with you next time I see you. I have a sexual wishlist and I’m certainly hoping …

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Experience Sensual Bliss Pocket Vagina and Male Sex Toys
Men's Sex Toys

Experience Sensual Bliss: Pocket Vagina and Male Sex Toys

Based on a survey conducted in 2022, the sex toy market is projected to grow to around 52.7 billion US dollars by the year 2026 …

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Vibrant Viewings
Erotic Stories

Vibrant Viewings by Venus O’Hara

“I’m looking for something very special. With original features to renovate to my liking,” said a client who had called the real estate agency where …

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The Best of Both Worlds
Erotic Stories

The Best of Both Worlds by Venus O’Hara

The best nights are always the ones you don’t expect much from. That’s how it was when I went out clubbing with a former coworker …

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Stay At My Place
Erotic Stories

Stay At My Place by Venus O’Hara

I hear the intercom buzzer ring and I panic. Oh fuck. He’s here. It’s the moment of no return. All of a sudden, I’m filled …

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Spiritual Warfare
Erotic Stories

Spiritual Warfare by Venus O’Hara

“Close your eyes and take a deep breath,” he says.  I am sitting on the floor with crossed legs, following my yoga teacher’s instructions. The …

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Biting and Licking Mouth Clitoris Stimulator
Budget Sex Toys

2 in 1 Vibrator Biting and Licking Mouth Clitoris Stimulator Sohimi Review

Sohimi Biting and Licking Clitoris Stimulator Nipple Sucking Female Vibrator One of the only reasons I like to review moving toys is because of their …

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Sex Before Dinner
Erotic Stories

Sex Before Dinner by Venus O’Hara

“Let’s meet for dinner at my place,” I wrote in a text message to a guy I was seeing. I was in an Irish airport …

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LELO Soraya Beads

LELO Soraya Beads Review – Luxurious Anal Training 

I must confess that anal stimulation isn’t my thing. Despite this, I profoundly acknowledge the pleasure that the anus can provide. For example, the entrance …

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Our First Time
Erotic Stories

Our First Time by Venus O’Hara

I know something is going to happen between us. It’s obvious. The question is how is it going to transpire. I get a nervous thrill …

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My Masturbation Muses
Erotic Stories

My Masturbation Muses by Venus O’Hara

  Two things can happen when you masturbate thinking about someone with whom you’ve never been intimate. It can either increase your desire for that …

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