"My mission is to encourage others to use their sexual energy in an empowering way and to eat more plants."

Raising orgasmic awareness. Author. British expat in Spain. Sex toy tester & designer. Brand Ambassador for Satisfyer. YouTuber. Fetishist. Feminist. Vegan. Yogini. Zen. Creator of The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast. 

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What you can find on this website:


A complete glossary of fetishes with over 50 kinks. We all have a fetish, what’s yours?


Reviews and recommendations of the very best pleasure products by sex toy tester Venus O’Hara


A private area with the best photos. No text to distract you, just images.


Every day is a climax. Here I interview thought leaders in the fields of personal development, health, nutrition, spirituality, and more.


Articles on how to enhance your intimate relationships as well as dating tips for singles.


Discover my unique ASMR whispering affirmation meditations on a range of different topics from health, abundance, prosperity and sexual wellness.

In the Blog

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Fetish Glossary

The Inside Scoop on the Growing Foot Fetish Industry

  Maybe it’s because people are becoming more accepting of other people’s differences or more open to non-traditional sexual preferences. Or perhaps it’s the fact …

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Tiani DUO

LELO Tiani DUO – A Couple’s Vibrator with a Remote Control – Review

I’ve been thinking a lot about relationship styles lately. For about a year, I’ve been part of a sex book club with a few female …

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Bijoux Indiscrets
Clitoral Stimulators

Bijoux Indiscrets – Sex au naturel – Review

It’s always a pleasure to review Bijoux Indiscret’s products. We are aligned in many ways. We are both passionate about female pleasure, based in Barcelona …

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Marvellous Four
Clitoral Stimulators

Marvellous Four – A Set of 4 Sex Toys from Satisfyer

I was really excited about trying this set of 4 products from Satisfyer. I love the box; when I saw  the picture on it, I …

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App-controlled Sex Toys

Double Flex – An App-Controlled Rabbit Vibrator with 3 Independent Motors from Satisfyer – Review

There’s nothing like a rabbit vibrator to celebrate Easter. I’m not into Easter eggs or devouring cheap chocolate in abundance to celebrate the Spring. I’d …

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Sex & Relationships

Women Empowerment and the Rise of Gentlemen Escorts

  Featured Image by Zoe on Unsplash Seeing these two concepts together may startle some, but you would be surprised at how connected these two …

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Men's Sex Toys

4 Reasons Why Your Man Should Try Perfect Fit Tunnel Butt Plugs

People around the world are now making notable efforts to counter the stigmas associated with sex. Consequently, adults are now becoming more experimenting with their …

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Sex & Relationships

Let’s get Beducated! The Roadmap to Intimacy Couple’s Course Review

I’ve really enjoyed the last couple of days, devouring content on Beducated, an online platform that hosts an array of sexual wellness courses on a …

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Clitoral Suction Toys

Curvy Trinity 2 from Satisfyer – Review

It was a Sunday afternoon when I went down to the beach in Barcelona with my Curvy Trinity 2 from Satisfyer. I knew there would …

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A-Mazing 1

A-Mazing 1 – A-Spot Vibrator from Satisfyer – Review

Forget the G spot. The A-spot is where the party is at. At least, that’s what it’s like for me.  AFE zone stands for the …

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Dr. Courtney
The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast

Dr Courtney Tracy, A Mental Health Content Creator Known as The Truth Doctor

Dr Courtney Tracy, a world-renowned psychotherapist, clinical entrepreneur, and mental health content creator known as The Truth Doctor, joins The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast by Venus …

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My Orgasmic Lifestyle

Vidacap Mushroom Supplements for Sleep – Review

When Vidacap approached me to try some mushroom supplements, I was intrigued.    I love all things natural and after checking out all the mushroom …

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