"My mission is to encourage others to use their sexual energy in an empowering way and to eat more plants."

Raising orgasmic awareness. Author. British expat in Spain. Sex toy tester & designer. Brand Ambassador for Satisfyer. YouTuber. Fetishist. Feminist. Vegan. Yogini. Zen. Creator of The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast. 

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What you can find on this website:


A complete glossary of fetishes with over 50 kinks. We all have a fetish, what’s yours?


Reviews and recommendations of the very best pleasure products by sex toy tester Venus O’Hara


A private area with the best photos. No text to distract you, just images.


Every day is a climax. Here I interview thought leaders in the fields of personal development, health, nutrition, spirituality, and more.


Articles on how to enhance your intimate relationships as well as dating tips for singles.


Discover my unique ASMR whispering affirmation meditations on a range of different topics from health, abundance, prosperity and sexual wellness.

In the Blog

OG Flow
Clitoral Stimulators

OG Flow from Tracy’s Dog Sex Toy Review

I know a lot about female orgasm but I don’t know a lot about squirting. All I know is that thanks to OG Flow from …

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App-controlled Sex Toys

LELO Ida Wave vs Soraya Wave: Sex Toy Comparison Review

They are both LELO products. They both vibrate and wave, providing vibrating stimulation to the clitoris and a waving motion to the G spot. Despite …

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lily 2
Clitoral Stimulators

Lily 2 – A Scented Clitoral Stimulator from LELO – Review

I’m thrilled to have acquired a new LILY 2 from LELO. I received my first one in 2015 when it was first released and it …

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App-controlled Sex Toys

Pearl3 from Kiiroo – An Interactive G Spot Vibrator – Review

I’ve just popped my Kiiroo cherry thanks to this review of Pearl3, an interactive G spot vibrator.    I’ve followed Kiiroo on social media for …

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torso Sex Doll
Fetish Glossary

5 Reasons to Get a Torso Sex Doll – Featuring Britney from Tantaly

  After discovering torso sex dolls, such as Britney from Tantaly, I can only see advantages.  Keep reading to find out more.    A few …

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Sex & Relationships

Ways to Boost Your Libido and Reboot Your Relationship

Whether you have been together for months, years or decades, your sex life is likely to have ups and downs. Ask anyone in a loving …

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Clitoral Stimulators

Cathy – A Clitoral sucking stimulator and thrusting sex toy from Kistoy – Review

I was super intrigued when I first saw Cathy from Kistoy. I’ve never tried anything like it. It is a dual stimulator that provides pleasure …

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Lelo Dot
Clitoral Stimulators

LELO Dot – Pinpoint Clitoral Vibrator Review

“Check out LELO Dot,” I said to a friend as I showed her a picture of LELO’s latest orgasmic device on my computer screen at …

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Sex & Relationships

4 Things That Will Definitely Excite Every Woman

A woman’s life is filled with many responsibilities and demands. In order to keep things exciting, finding ways to add some spice to your life …

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Clitoral Stimulators

Banana Vibrator from Youvic – A versatile vibrator with 3 independent motors

I seriously underestimated this banana vibe from Youvic. I didn’t bother to read the product specification. I just took it out of its box when …

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Luxury Sex Toys

Ferri by Lovense – My Strongest Wearable Panty Vibe – Sex Toy Review

Ferri by Lovense is my strongest wearable panty vibe. This category of sex toy has really gained momentum over the last couple of years. I …

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Bullet Vibrators

Drift – A Warming Bullet Vibrator from Lora DiCarlo Review

Drift from Lora Dicarlo is a warming bullet vibrator. I must confess that bullet vibrators are usually not my favourite category of sex toys. They …

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