"My mission is to encourage others to use their sexual energy in an empowering way and to eat more plants."

Raising orgasmic awareness. Author. British expat in Spain. Sex toy tester & designer. Brand Ambassador for Satisfyer. YouTuber. Fetishist. Feminist. Vegan. Yogini. Zen. Creator of The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast. 

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What you can find on this website:


A complete glossary of fetishes with over 50 kinks. We all have a fetish, what’s yours?


Reviews and recommendations of the very best pleasure products by sex toy tester Venus O’Hara


A private area with the best photos. No text to distract you, just images.


Every day is a climax. Here I interview thought leaders in the fields of personal development, health, nutrition, spirituality, and more.


Articles on how to enhance your intimate relationships as well as dating tips for singles.


Discover my unique ASMR whispering affirmation meditations on a range of different topics from health, abundance, prosperity and sexual wellness.

In the Blog

Sex & Relationships

3 Reasons To Get An Erotic Massage in Barcelona

Massages are great. But some are better than others. I love all types of massages. Relaxing, sports, Thai, tantric and even erotic. Most massages provoke …

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Fun Factory Unboxing

Fun Factory Unboxing

  I’ll never forget visiting Fun Factory in Bremen, Germany back in 2016. I felt so honoured to be invited to their headquarters and factory …

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Sex & Relationships

The Ethics of Having A Sex Doll

Is having a sex doll a harmless personal choice or a morally questionable act? Sex dolls have been a controversial topic for many years, eliciting …

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App-controlled Sex Toys

LELO Tor 3 – Pleasure Ring – Couple’s Vibrator – Review

LELO Tor 3 – App-Controlled Pleasure Ring   LELO Tor 3 is a luxurious and innovative couple’s vibrator that has totally exceeded my expectations. It …

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Sex & Relationships

Helpful Guide For Finding The Right Domestic Violence Lawyer

If you or someone you know is facing domestic violence, it can be difficult to know where to turn for help. You may feel overwhelmed …

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How To Build A Sex Room with Private Euphoria Sex Swing

How To Build A Sex Room with Private Euphoria Sex Swing   I seriously loved watching ‘How to Build A Sex Room’ On Netflix. If …

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Sex Toy Reviews

The Importance of Female Pleasure

Scandalous, frivolous and unnecessary. These are just some words that people have used to describe my job as a sex toy reviewer and sex tech …

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12 Tips For Better Sex After The Age Of 40 | Venus O’Hara

12 Tips For Better Sex After The Age Of 40 | Venus O’Hara

  12 Tips to Fire Up Your Sexy Time In Your 40s Welcome to the naughty forties! If you’ve just hit the big 4-0 now’s …

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App-controlled Sex Toys

The Best Pelvic Floor Trainers

Having a strong pelvic floor is really important. It’s not just for women who have given birth. Kegel exercises are important for everyone.    I’ve …

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My Orgasmic Lifestyle

Do you need a supplement to boost your libido? Inno Drive for Her & Female Vitality Stack Review

I was asked to try Inno Drive for Her, a supplement that claims to boost female libido, balance hormones, offer mood and stress support as …

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App-controlled Sex Toys

Ohmibod App-Controlled Sex Toys

Valentine’s month marks a high point in the annual sex toy calendar. It could be my busiest time of year. When Valentine’s Day comes, I …

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Clitoral Stimulators

LILY 3 LELO Vibrator Review

Check out Lily 3, a personal massager from LELO, an evergreen product that has been improved to celebrate 20 years of LELO. It is available …

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