"My mission is to encourage others to use their sexual energy in an empowering way and to eat more plants."

Raising orgasmic awareness. Author. British expat in Spain. Sex toy tester & designer. Brand Ambassador for Satisfyer. YouTuber. Fetishist. Feminist. Vegan. Yogini. Zen. Creator of The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast. 

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What you can find on this website:


A complete glossary of fetishes with over 50 kinks. We all have a fetish, what’s yours?


Reviews and recommendations of the very best pleasure products by sex toy tester Venus O’Hara


A private area with the best photos. No text to distract you, just images.


Every day is a climax. Here I interview thought leaders in the fields of personal development, health, nutrition, spirituality, and more.


Articles on how to enhance your intimate relationships as well as dating tips for singles.


Discover my unique ASMR whispering affirmation meditations on a range of different topics from health, abundance, prosperity and sexual wellness.

In the Blog

Pillo Dame

Pillo Dame Products A Sex Pillow Review

I’ve had Pillo, a sex pillow from Dame Products for several years and I absolutely love it. It is s soft yet firm pillow for …

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Best Sex Toys

Best LELO Sex Toys – Read Before Buying A LELO Product

I have all of LELO’s products in my vast collection of sex toys that comprises 700 pleasure products. I have 2 boxes that are full …

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Osé 2
Clitoral Suction Toys

Osé 2 from Lora DiCarlo Honest Review – Read before buying

I first saw the Osé 2 from Lora DiCarlo online a couple of years ago. When I understood its dimensions, I found it extremely intimidating. …

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Sex & Relationships

How You Can Help Your Partner Finish First

Sex plays an essential part in a relationship – it gives you and your partner a chance to get closer, have fun and explore your …

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Sex & Relationships

The Definitive Guide to Male Enhancement Supplements

As men age, they may experience a decline in their testosterone levels. This can lead to decreased energy, libido, and muscle mass. Luckily, there are …

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App-controlled Sex Toys

Aya Zalo A Wearable Remote Control Vibrator Review

When I saw Aya from Zalo on social media, I couldn’t wait to try it for myself. I’ve tried several Zalo products in the past …

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Ida Wave
App-controlled Sex Toys

Ida Wave LELO – Sex Toy Review

I have a follower who is always commenting on my toys’ size. He says he feels an inferiority complex when he sees many of them. …

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Men's Sex Toys

How To Upgrade A Male Orgasm

‘How can you possibly review a male sex toy if you’re a woman?’    I receive this comment a lot when I make male sex …

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Butterfly Desire
Clitoral Suction Toys

Butterfly Desire Vibe Pro from Bombex – Review

I must confess that I had this product, Butterfly Desire Vibe Pro from Bombex in my ‘incoming’ tray for a long time before I actually …

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5 G spot toys

HoneyPlayBox 5 G Spot Vibrators – Sex Toy Review

I love receiving big boxes of toys. When I received 5 G spot toys from HoneyPlayBox, I knew I was in for a treat. I …

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Starship – A Wearable Remote Control Panty Vibe from Tracy’s Dog – Review

I went down to the beach to take photos of Starship from Tracy’s Dog. I tried to do it discreetly so that no one would …

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Love Balls

What Is A Love Egg Vibrator & How Do I Use It?

Keeping things fun and exciting in the bedroom can be hard, even for those who have tons of experience and it’s easy to get stuck …

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