"My mission is to encourage others to use their sexual energy in an empowering way and to eat more plants."

Raising orgasmic awareness. Author. British expat in Spain. Sex toy tester & designer. Brand Ambassador for Satisfyer. YouTuber. Fetishist. Feminist. Vegan. Yogini. Zen. Creator of The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast. 

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What you can find on this website:


A complete glossary of fetishes with over 50 kinks. We all have a fetish, what’s yours?


Reviews and recommendations of the very best pleasure products by sex toy tester Venus O’Hara


A private area with the best photos. No text to distract you, just images.


Every day is a climax. Here I interview thought leaders in the fields of personal development, health, nutrition, spirituality, and more.


Articles on how to enhance your intimate relationships as well as dating tips for singles.


Discover my unique ASMR whispering affirmation meditations on a range of different topics from health, abundance, prosperity and sexual wellness.

In the Blog

Bullet Vibrators

Drift – A Warming Bullet Vibrator from Lora DiCarlo Review

Drift from Lora Dicarlo is a warming bullet vibrator. I must confess that bullet vibrators are usually not my favourite category of sex toys. They …

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Lush 3
App-controlled Sex Toys

Lush 3 Lovense – The Most Powerful Wearable G Spot Vibrator – Sex Toy Review

Lush 3 Lovense is an incredibly strong wearable vibrator that stimulates the G spot. You can control it manually or with the Lovense Remote app. …

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Clitoral Stimulators

Carezza – A 2-IN-1 Clitoral Stimulator from Lora DiCarlo Review

Carezza from Lora DiCarlo is a unique clitoral stimulator that provides stimulation through  PercussionTouch™ technology builds from gentle touching to massaging vibration to focused deep …

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Sex & Relationships

How I Tripled My Income Thanks to Sex Magick

It was March 2018 and I was wondering how I was going to pay the rent of my new penthouse apartment in Barceloneta, a barrio …

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Clitoral Stimulators

Baci – Lora Di Carlo Is It Worth The Hype? – Sex Toy Review

I’ve had Baci from Lora DiCarlo for a very long time. It is a clitoral stimulator that uses airflow technology to mimic the feeling of …

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Will my sex toy replace my partner?

‘Will I have less desire to have sex with my partner if I get a sex toy?’    I get asked this question very often. …

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Domi 2
Clitoral Stimulators

Domi 2 Lovense – My Strongest Mini Wand Massager – Sex Toy Review

Domi 2 from Lovense is my strongest mini wand massager. I have used it so many times ever since I first received it in 2021. …

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Sex & Relationships

How To Keep Yourself Happy When You Are Not Looking For A Relationship

A lot of people seem to think that the only way to be happy is when you are in a relationship, but that’s not true. …

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Pillo Dame

Pillo Dame Products A Sex Pillow Review

I’ve had Pillo, a sex pillow from Dame Products for several years and I absolutely love it. It is s soft yet firm pillow for …

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Best Sex Toys

Best LELO Sex Toys – Read Before Buying A LELO Product

I have all of LELO’s products in my vast collection of sex toys that comprises 700 pleasure products. I have 2 boxes that are full …

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Osé 2
Clitoral Suction Toys

Osé 2 from Lora DiCarlo Honest Review – Read before buying

I first saw the Osé 2 from Lora DiCarlo online a couple of years ago. When I understood its dimensions, I found it extremely intimidating. …

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Sex & Relationships

How You Can Help Your Partner Finish First

Sex plays an essential part in a relationship – it gives you and your partner a chance to get closer, have fun and explore your …

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