"My mission is to encourage others to use their sexual energy in an empowering way and to eat more plants."
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Raising orgasmic awareness. Author. British expat in Spain. Sex toy tester & designer. Brand Ambassador for Satisfyer. YouTuber. Fetishist. Feminist. Vegan. Yogini. Zen. Creator of The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast. 

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What you can find on this website:


A complete glossary of fetishes with over 50 kinks. We all have a fetish, what’s yours?


Reviews and recommendations of the very best pleasure products by sex toy tester Venus O’Hara


A private area with the best photos. No text to distract you, just images.


Every day is a climax. Here I interview thought leaders in the fields of personal development, health, nutrition, spirituality, and more.


Articles on how to enhance your intimate relationships as well as dating tips for singles.


Discover my unique ASMR whispering affirmation meditations on a range of different topics from health, abundance, prosperity and sexual wellness.

In the Blog

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Fetish Glossary

Zentai Fantasies

At this moment I should be working on an article but I’m thinking about zentai instead. In fact, I just can’t seem to get it …

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Corset Fetish

Corsetry Customs

It has to be a very special occasion indeed for me to indulge in corsetry customs. An authentic commitment to those protocols also requires the …

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Interview with Sarah Britton – Creator of My New Roots

Plant-Based Cooking, Life-Changing Bread and Holistic Nutrition with Sarah Britton, Founder of My New Roots   Sarah Britton, the founder of My New Roots, joins …

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Fetish Glossary

BDSM on a Budget

Having an extensive collection of BDSM paraphernalia is all very well. But, what if you do not have the convenience of a well-stocked fetish boutique …

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Fetish Glossary

Does my ass look big in this?

Hopefully, the answer to that question will be ‘yes’. Before the belfie-taking Kardashian era, this response would have been inconceivable. But, thank God, a great …

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The Stimulating History of Sex Toys – Interview with Hallie Liebermann

The Stimulating History of Sex Toys – Interview with Hallie Liebermann, Sex Historian and Author of “Buzz a Stimulating History of Sex Toys”   Hallie …

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Fetish Glossary

Do NOT click on this link

You did it. I told you not to and you disobeyed my instructions. I suppose that, deep down, I always knew that you would. Most …

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Sex & Relationships

4 Exciting Ways Audio Porn Can Teach You About Your Body

No one knows your body better than you. We all have a natural instinct that tells us what we need and want. But sometimes, it …

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Fetish Glossary

The Day I Participated in a Professional BDSM Session

I make no secret that I love FemDom. I am always in charge, even during conventional vanilla sex. The unapologetic displays of my dominant desires …

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Sacred Sexuality with Leola, Sacred Intimacy Mentor and Muse at Talk Tantra To Me

Leola Lauren, Sacred Intimacy Mentor, and Muse at Talk Tantra to Me, joins The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast hosted by Venus O’Hara. They discuss spiritual sexuality, …

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Fetish Glossary

Sunday Worship

“Do you think they wash the ropes? I mean, I realise that they must have absorbed sweat, other bodily fluids and samples of random people’s …

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Sex & Relationships

Motherhood And Sexuality: 6 Important Things To Know

To this day, there are still a lot of myths surrounding motherhood and sexuality. The common misconception is that women tend to be less open …

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