I definitely deserve a special gift this year for Valentine’s Day. I’m newly single and although that is a bit scary when I think about it, I know that it is for the best. Breaking up with someone can be especially scary with all these lockdown restrictions and fear-based thinking. It can make you want to latch onto someone even when you know that they are not quite right for you.
Self-love is more important than romantic love, in my humble opinion. So, when it comes to Valentine’s gifts, it doesn’t mean that the singletons should miss out. I often meditate with a rose quartz crystal when I want to amplify my self-love and attract love from others. But of course, the effects or results of this are rarely immediate. You just have to trust the Universe.
That is why Sila from LELO is a better self-love option for Valentine’s day. It is a luxury clitoral stimulator that provides sonic waves to the entire clitoris. It is not a vibrator. Shaped like a snail, the nozzle has a unique oval shape that is placed over the clitoris. You must hold it in the same place throughout stimulation in order to reap the many orgasmic benefits that it provides.
I’m sure that people are going to want to know how it compares to Sona, so here goes. For me, there is no comparison. Sila wins every time. Sona is very direct offering intense pinpoint stimulation whereas Sila offers a much gentler approach. Despite this, it is definitely intense enough to provide pleasure and orgasms. The wider, oval shape nozzle is much more comfortable and not only that, it is much easier to clean than any other product in this category that I have tried.
The snail shape is definitely attractive, but I must confess that it is not as ergonomic to hold as Sona. But still, the fact that it feels much, much nicer on my delicate parts certainly makes up for it.
PACKAGING: Sila is presented in a very elegant box that is ideal for offering as a gift. It also contains a USB charging cable, a sachet of LELO personal moisturiser which is glycerin and paraben-free. There is also a small leaflet with more information about the lubricant. You can also find a warranty registration card. Once registered, you will have one year warranty and 10-year product quality guarantee. In order to download the full user guide, there is a QR code if you wish to download the PDF. There is also a super soft drawstring storage pouch included.
MATERIAL: It is made of ABS and silicone. It is compatible with water-based lubricants, such as the LELO personal moisturiser which is included. It is also waterproof, which makes cleaning a breeze and of course, you can enjoy it in the bath or the shower. The nozzle is very easy to clean, much more so than products which offer this type of stimulation.
STRENGTH OF MOTOR: From moderate to strong.
NOISE LEVEL: Moderate. Check my video below for a soundcheck.
USABILITY: This clitoral stimulator is very simple to use. There is a travel lock. There are 8 pleasure patterns that you can increase or decrease according to your preference or the moment. It is rare that sex toys offering this type of clitoral stimulation have patterned programmes. For example, you can enjoy quick pulsations, long pulsations and some wavy patterns. I started off very gentle and went through all the patterns before settling on a continuous mode in order to reach orgasm.
ORGASM-O-BILITY: A-MAZ-ING! I had 2 epic orgasms with Sila already. I must say that this new nozzle isn’t just more ergonomic and comfortable, but it is also much more orgasmic.
PROS: Orgasmic. Elegant shape. Beautiful packaging. Very easy to clean. Waterproof. Original shape.
CONS: Not silent.
- Demanding women who enjoy sonic wave clitoral stimulation.
- A special gift for a special someone.
- Using on the nipples during foreplay.
- Women looking for a different kind of sex toy.
For more information about LELO Sila, visit: https://lelo.to/SilaVenus
Check out my Lelo Sila review video below: