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How to Cultivate Healthy Relationships with Female Sexuality

Cultivating healthy sexual relationships with women can be difficult.  Unless you have a lot of experience sexually, you’ll likely struggle a great deal. Many people find themselves completely unable to initiate sex with women (and then, consequently, build healthy relationships). If you are one such individual, then now’s the time to rethink your strategy. Coming up with a more effective way of attracting members of the opposite sex and then performing better in bed will do wonders for your mental health. Studies suggest that sex-deprived individuals are significantly more likely to experience mental health issues than people their age who do have a lot of sex.

This post will explore this topic in more detail, telling you everything you need to know about cultivating healthy relationships with women. Make sure that you read it in its entirety. If you have further questions, then you may want to consider getting in touch with a relationship expert. A relationship expert, or a love guru, will be able to deal with your problems on an individual basis and help you to work through them, ultimately helping you to achieve better relationships. Make sure to find an experienced one if this does interest you.

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Using Toys

You don’t have to be an expert to bring partners to satisfaction. In fact, toys can be a lot more effective at helping sexual partners to orgasm than you physically can. Whether it’s a finger vibrator or a dildo, toys can be great. If you are planning on using them then make sure you obtain your partner’s consent first. Using toys on a person who is unprepared or unaware is not a nice thing to do and could get you into trouble with them. Always advise a partner first on the merits of using toys in the bedroom, and when you have their approval, show them a good time.

You can also use toys yourself to learn self-control.  Many men are unable to please their partners because they ejaculate too quickly. Utilizing toys can help you to prolong your performance in bed, preventing premature ejaculation. Premature ejaculation can be bad for the spirit and mental health, too. It can leave sufferers feeling useless and ineffective. You may want to get in touch with a sexual health specialist and ask for their advice if you are unable to stop premature ejaculation with toys.

Hiring Support

If you want to improve your sexual performance, you might want to hire a professional.  As referenced in this post’s introduction, a professional’s advice and support can be very useful. A lot of people think that relationship advisors can only come in handy when it comes to negotiating and working through disputes in a relationship, but this isn’t exactly true. Many relationship advisors also double as sexual health experts. These individuals use their expertise and knowledge of sex to give people advice relative to improving their performance in the bedroom. If you want to improve your performance, an adviser’s help will come in handy.

If you are planning on hiring such an individual, you need to make sure that you conduct extensive online research and hire the one in your area that has the best reviews and the best reputation. A good way to tell whether or not an individual is worth hiring is to read their reviews, as reviews give you a glimpse into what it is like being their client. Remember that some businesses do not have reviews and that can actually be a good sign. No reviews can indicate that a business has never done anything to irritate its clients. Bear in mind that if you are going to read reviews, you should read ones that have been posted off-site. Reviews posted on the site have a tendency to be exaggerated and biased.

Consider Supplements

The use of supplements can be a highly effective strategy for improving your performance and pleasing your partner. There are lots of supplements available for this kind of thing. You need to make sure that the ones you take have been scientifically proven to be effective. Unfortunately, the sexual health supplement industry is fraught with products that are mis-advertised and misrepresented. You need to ensure that the products you take are approved by industry leaders. As a rule, supplements that have been licensed and certified by authoritative bodies will advertise this on their website. If the product you are buying does not have any such advertisement on its manufacturer’s site, you may want to consider avoiding it.

Before you go ahead and invest in a supplement, make sure that in addition to reading the manufacturer’s reviews, that you take time to read what people are saying about it online, ideally on forums. Forums can be great places to turn if you are looking for information about a product or supplement. Chat rooms can be great places to turn, too. Make sure that the forums and chat rooms you use are not sponsored in any way. This is because sponsored forums tend to also post biased reviews and remove ones that shine a negative light on their sponsors.

Watching Videos Online

People tend to recommend not watching porn if you are trying to learn how to improve your performance in the bedroom. While porn can indeed give people a jaded perspective on how sex should actually take place, it’s still a valuable resource and can help you to familiarize yourself with the female body. Bear in mind though, porn is fiction. Sex with your partner is not going to be anything like a porno movie. If you go into sex thinking that it is going to be, you are going to be massively disappointed.

When watching porn, ensure you find a genre that really stimulates you and gets you off. This is so that you can practice self-control and prolong your bedroom performance, as noted above. The longer you can last watching porn, the longer you’ll be able to last in bed. Go easy on porn though, as too much of it can lead to sexual health issues, like the so-called death grip.

Pharmaceutical Medication

If you cannot perform because of health issues, you may want to consider reaching out to a pharmacist or your registered physician. The kinds of medicines prescribed to treat these things tend to only be available on prescription. You can receive a prescription by getting in touch with your doctor and explaining your issues to them. Remember, some doctors may advise lifestyle changes before they go ahead and offer a prescription. You can pre-empt this by making your own lifestyle changes and seeing if they work for you. If you find that lifestyle changes to work then you do not need to go to your doctor. Medication is only necessary if you struggle to get an erection or if you suffer from premature ejaculation.

Lots of people are too anxious to talk to doctors about issues of this kind, which is why it is important that you be brave and talk to yours. Hiding your problems for fear of judgment can have a detrimental effect on your mental and physical health. Sex is a way for people to express themselves and if you are excluded from it because of mental illness or performance issues then you are not going to be able to properly express yourself. If you do end up being prescribed pharmaceutical medication, make sure that you follow the use instructions outlined on the bag of the packet. Never take more than you are told to.

Open Conversations

In terms of improving your relationship with your sexual partner, having open conversations with them is something that’s worth considering. Having more open conversations will help you to improve your bond with them also. Of course, conversations of this kind can be awkward and hard to maintain. If you are planning on discussing sexuality with your partner, then make sure that you tell them in advance and give them some warning. Springing such a conversation on them could lead to them feeling awkward and avoiding it. Giving them some notice will help them to prepare and also give them an opportunity to think about any issues that they want to raise. If they do have any concerns or issues that they want to raise, giving them notice will help them to collect their thoughts and present their case properly.

Make sure that when talking to your loved one, you are completely transparent. If you hide anything from them then you are not going to be able to get to the root of your issues with them (or alternatively, they won’t be able to get to the root of their issues with you). Having open conversations about sexuality isn’t something the average person is comfortable with and as such you need to prepare yourself and take some time to figure out what you are going to say. If you are unable to collect your thoughts or rush the conversation, you’ll end up missing out on important things.

Regular Exercise

Regular exercise is essential if you want to perform well sexually. A lot of people today do everything that they can to avoid going to the gym or having anything to do with physical fitness. If you are one such individual, then you need to rethink your strategy for life. Not going to the gym and not exercising can have devastating implications on your sex life and your personal life. Going to the gym can be a great way to get in shape, although you don’t have to go to the gym if you don’t want to, as you can always exercise at home. There are an endless number of calisthenic exercises that you can do at home without anybody’s support or without the need for machines. Calisthenic exercises can be a little difficult to master, as the technique needs to be perfect for them. You may want to consider hiring a personal trainer in the early days of your fitness journey so that you can learn exactly how you’re supposed to perform exercises.

In addition to exercising on a regular basis, you should also try to eat healthily. Healthy diet will help you to perform better in bed and will improve your general health. Regular healthy eating is something more and more people today are taking up. The average person knows now that junk food is extremely bad for them and can have serious implications on their health and their life. If you are planning on eating healthily then do as much research into it as you can so that you can ensure the food you are eating is good for you and your body. Some people have certain food intolerances which means that even the healthiest foods are bad for them. Check if you have any food intolerances before you commit to eating a healthy diet. Checking for food intolerances will help you to prevent yourself from incorporating foods that are not good for your body into your diet.

Reading Manuals

Reading manuals and books can be a fantastic way of improving your performance in the bedroom. There are an unlimited number of books available for purchase online. In addition to purchasable books, you may want to consider taking courses. Online courses a widely available and can help you to learn everything that you need to know in order to satisfy and fulfill your sexual partner. Ensure the manuals you read are relevant to the types of sex that you enjoy.

Before purchasing or reading a manual, research its author and make sure that they are an authority with an academic background. While self-help gurus can be great for learning, it is best to put your trust in somebody who knows what they are doing practically and has an academic background there to back it up. Manuals and books should be given serious consideration prior to any further sexual contact with your partner.


Sex is a taboo topic. Many people are reluctant to discuss it. If you are not fulfilling your partner, then you need to start being more open. You need, specifically, to have an open conversation with your partner. You can use the guidance from this post to do that.

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