"My mission is to encourage others to use their sexual energy in an empowering way and to eat more plants."

Raising orgasmic awareness. Author. British expat in Spain. Sex toy tester & designer. Brand Ambassador for Satisfyer. YouTuber. Fetishist. Feminist. Vegan. Yogini. Zen. Creator of The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast. 

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What you can find on this website:


A complete glossary of fetishes with over 50 kinks. We all have a fetish, what’s yours?


Reviews and recommendations of the very best pleasure products by sex toy tester Venus O’Hara


A private area with the best photos. No text to distract you, just images.


Every day is a climax. Here I interview thought leaders in the fields of personal development, health, nutrition, spirituality, and more.


Articles on how to enhance your intimate relationships as well as dating tips for singles.


Discover my unique ASMR whispering affirmation meditations on a range of different topics from health, abundance, prosperity and sexual wellness.

In the Blog

Erotic Stories

Confessions of a Fetish Model – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

A photoshoot isn’t just a moment for the model or the photographer. As I pose, I’m very aware that I’m also showcasing the talents of …

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Celebrating Masturbation May with LELO
Clitoral Stimulators

Celebrating Masturbation May with LELO! Featuring GIGI 2

I love the month of May. Not only is it my birthday this month but it’s also International Masturbation Month. As an orgasm activist, this …

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love hotel
Erotic Stories

Better than Porn – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

“Shall we go to a love hotel?” I suggested.    I was with a friend and we had arranged to meet for a coffee on …

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Svakom Phoenix Neo 2 Review
App-controlled Sex Toys

Svakom Phoenix Neo 2 Review

I recently hosted a gala evening for the official EroSpain Award Ceremony. The very first edition of EroSpain was celebrated in Barcelona, Spain a couple …

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Dermal Fillers
Sex & Relationships

From Lips to Cheeks: How Dermal Fillers Can Make You Look More Attractive

Do you want to look more attractive? Changing your beauty routine with dermal fillers can give you the results that you’re looking for, quickly and …

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Behind the Camera
Erotic Stories

Behind the Camera – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

“I know you say you love playing the dominant role, but I’m sure you’d enjoy being the submissive much more.” This is what my friend’s …

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Sexual Tourism
Erotic Stories

Sexual Tourism in Paris – Erotic Story

I wasn’t thinking about conventional tourism when I studied the map of Paris for the first time years ago. It was July and I was …

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Clitoral Suction Toys

Gcat Review from GVibe

There is a famous personality test that asks you which animal you most identify with. Then you have to state 3 adjectives that you associate …

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The Lady of the Rings
Erotic Stories

The Lady of the Rings – Erotic Story

I take a deep breath in anticipation of the intimate ceremony that is about to take place. As a commitment-phobe, I must confess that the …

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Sex & Relationships

How to Keep Your Sexual Life Fresh and Exciting Over Time

Although it might not seem to be the case, a great and healthy sexual life is an important part of any relationship. While new couples …

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Pelvic Floor Training
App-controlled Sex Toys

Perifit + Review – Pelvic Floor Training – Play Videogames with Your Vagina

  I recently interviewed a world-renowned pelvic floor practitioner for my podcast. We went into so much detail about pelvic floor issues and how we …

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My Orgasmic Independence
Erotic Stories

My Orgasmic Independence – Erotic Story

I remember a time when I had just broken up with someone who was one of the best lovers I’d ever had. Sex was always …

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