A woman’s life is filled with many responsibilities and demands. In order to keep things exciting, finding ways to add some spice to your life is crucial. Fortunately, most women are better at understanding what they want when compared to the opposite sex. When it comes to excitement, women know what they want and how to get it. This post will cover four things sure to get the juices flowing and your heart racing!
Certain Toys…
It would be remiss not to include certain toys in any post about turning women on! Fortunately, the sex toy industry is enormous, and as such, there are plenty of options. Some of the most popular include wands, vibrators, dildos, and, the most recognizable of all, a rabbit vibe. Rabbit vibrators are arguably the most affordable and price and provide the most bang for your buck. If you aren’t already aware, they are a type of vibrator explicitly designed to provide simultaneous penetration and clitoral stimulation. They combine the two most sought-after characteristics of a dildo and vibrator into one handy tool. However, you should consider the following before parting with your cash:
- Material: Silicone is the most commonly used material due to its softness and natural feel.
- Cost: Prices of rabbits can range from very affordable all the way to the moon. In order to get one that lasts, however, you should choose the highest quality within your budget.
- Size: The size of your toy will vary depending on what you know satisfies you or how experimental you are. Nonetheless, most come in “average” sizes which is plenty for most.
- Noise: Vibrators can be noisy, especially when on full power. Therefore, you should choose one with a low noise mode if you want to be discrete.
- Modes: Pleasure can be experienced in different ways depending on the mode you use. Therefore, a toy with lots of modes should provide you with lots of pleasure!
A Sensual Massage
A sensual massage is a type of massage where the masseuse uses touch to create a feeling of arousal and intimacy. A sensual massage can be done by a professional, or it can be done by your partner at home (the latter being the best option if you’re in a relationship!)
Spontaneous Passion
Spontaneity is vital for women as it creates excitement and adventure. In a relationship, spontaneity can be used to break up a routine that can often lead to boredom. By cutting through the drudgery of ordinary life, you can reignite a passion you forgot existed for one another. Unfortunately, this option relies on your partner rather than yourself and is only available if your partner suddenly becomes more spontaneous. Nevertheless, it doesn’t hurt to drop hints every now and then!
Getting To Know Your Body
All women are different and have different kinks, turn-ons, and erogenous zones. Therefore, you should learn to explore your own body before expecting others to do so. You might be pleasantly surprised at how enjoyable you find the experience.
Because all women are different, what turns you on may be different from what turns others on. Therefore, it is essential to take the time to explore your body and discover what you enjoy. Hopefully, this post has provided you with some inspiration to get the ball rolling.
Hello Miss Venus, I love your channel and site and you are very good at what you do! I’ll try to keep this short- when my wife and I first met and were dating, we had great sex- but over the years she complains to me in not so many words that the sex is not pleasurable for her anymore- we always role played the “hot wife” fantasy in bed where I would pretend to be a stranger, and I could see and feel her excitement go from 1-10 immediately! So eventually we brought it to real life, she told me she had to be drunk to do it, and I know she had the time of her life because she was squirting all over! But the next day, when I wanted her to tell me the details, she had a very hard time doing that, and seemed to be depressed for a few days afterward- we did it a few more times with the same results, again, with her having the time of her life, and I’m left with my favorite part out. She knows it would turn me on- should I not ask about details anymore? Or the one time she didn’t feel bad but felt powerful was when she just flirted, touched, and made out with guys while I pretend to be her roommate in the next room- now all of a sudden she is against the idea and doesn’t want to do it anymore- is it because she would rather do it behind my back? We talked about this and she said that was not the reason, she just felt like she was cheating on me, which I told her she wasn’t because we are in this together- I feel this fantasy will never go away, we have been married for 10 years, and it just excites me to see her in so much pleasure, and at the time she is. I never throw anything in her face about it, As I promised, and would not even think of it- all I would want is maybe one or two times a year to spice up our sex life, but at this point she doesn’t even get excited role playing it. Could you tell me from a woman’s point of view why this would happen? I think most wives would jump at the chance!! By the way, these are only strangers, a different one each time, thanks for listening!!! Signed, Feeling Down…