"My mission is to encourage others to use their sexual energy in an empowering way and to eat more plants."

Raising orgasmic awareness. Author. British expat in Spain. Sex toy tester & designer. Brand Ambassador for Satisfyer. YouTuber. Fetishist. Feminist. Vegan. Yogini. Zen. Creator of The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast. 

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What you can find on this website:


A complete glossary of fetishes with over 50 kinks. We all have a fetish, what’s yours?


Reviews and recommendations of the very best pleasure products by sex toy tester Venus O’Hara


A private area with the best photos. No text to distract you, just images.


Every day is a climax. Here I interview thought leaders in the fields of personal development, health, nutrition, spirituality, and more.


Articles on how to enhance your intimate relationships as well as dating tips for singles.


Discover my unique ASMR whispering affirmation meditations on a range of different topics from health, abundance, prosperity and sexual wellness.

In the Blog

Erotic Stories

Suncream – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

I hate dates. They make me feel so nervous and awkward.    It all starts with liking someone’s photos, swiping and then chatting. During that …

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App-controlled Sex Toys

Coh-nnection Air Pulse – Eden Fantasys – Review

When I first saw this sex toy from Eden Fantasys, it made me think of the painting ‘Ceci n’est pas une pipe’(translation: this is not …

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Second Time Lucky
Erotic Stories

Second Time Lucky – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

The first time I had sex was a disaster.    It was over almost as soon as it had begun. This was because the guy, …

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Pulse Queen
Clitoral Stimulators

Pulse Queen by Hot Octopuss Sex Toy Review

When I first set eyes on Pulse Queen by Hot Octopuss, I was reminded of the fact that I’m an objectophile. Objectophilia, or Object-Sexuality, is …

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Erotic Stories

Salsa – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

When I first danced salsa, I discovered that I had Latin fever. I got into it so much that I even became convinced that I …

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Budget Sex Toys

Mermaid Vibrator from Seekheart

I’ve learned a lot about anatomy in my profession as a sex toy reviewer. When I saw the picture of this remote-controlled Mermaid Vibrator from …

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Next Time I See You
Erotic Stories

Next Time I See You – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

Not long to go now. The anticipation of our next encounter is driving me to the brink of desire. Controlling myself has become a challenge …

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Mirror, Mirror
Erotic Stories

Mirror, Mirror – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

The first time I slept with a woman, I didn’t have a clue what I was doing. It was almost like losing my virginity all …

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Makeup Sex
Erotic Stories

Makeup Sex – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

So close, and yet so far away.    That’s how I feel when I’m lying in bed watching him disrobe as we prepare to sleep. …

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In The Shower
Erotic Stories

In The Shower – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

It’s winter and the process of getting undressed to shower is an uncomfortable one. I know the feeling of being naked and cold will pass …

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Sex & Relationships

7 Ways CBD Products Can Transform Your Intimate Moments

In the realm of wellness and self-care, CBD (cannabidiol) has rapidly gained popularity for its potential health benefits. From reducing anxiety to managing pain, CBD …

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Erogenous Exploration
Erotic Stories

Erogenous Exploration – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

The true essence of pleasure lies in the act of giving to another.    I ponder this as I embark on a thorough erogenous exploration …

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