"My mission is to encourage others to use their sexual energy in an empowering way and to eat more plants."

Raising orgasmic awareness. Author. British expat in Spain. Sex toy tester & designer. Brand Ambassador for Satisfyer. YouTuber. Fetishist. Feminist. Vegan. Yogini. Zen. Creator of The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast. 

sexual wellness
orgasmic lifestyle podcast

All persons depicted herein were at least 18 years of age at the time of the photography.
18 U.S.C. 2257 Exempt Compliance Statement

Features Section

What you can find on this website:


A complete glossary of fetishes with over 50 kinks. We all have a fetish, what’s yours?


Reviews and recommendations of the very best pleasure products by sex toy tester Venus O’Hara


A private area with the best photos. No text to distract you, just images.


Every day is a climax. Here I interview thought leaders in the fields of personal development, health, nutrition, spirituality, and more.


Articles on how to enhance your intimate relationships as well as dating tips for singles.


Discover my unique ASMR whispering affirmation meditations on a range of different topics from health, abundance, prosperity and sexual wellness.

In the Blog

Sex & Relationships

Helpful Guide For Finding The Right Domestic Violence Lawyer

If you or someone you know is facing domestic violence, it can be difficult to know where to turn for help. You may feel overwhelmed …

Read More →
AAA - Private Euphoria Sex Swing

How To Build A Sex Room with Private Euphoria Sex Swing

How To Build A Sex Room with Private Euphoria Sex Swing   I seriously loved watching ‘How to Build A Sex Room’ On Netflix. If …

Read More →
conscious connections
Sex Toy Reviews

The Importance of Female Pleasure

Scandalous, frivolous and unnecessary. These are just some words that people have used to describe my job as a sex toy reviewer and sex tech …

Read More →
12 Tips For Better Sex After The Age Of 40 | Venus O’Hara

12 Tips For Better Sex After The Age Of 40 | Venus O’Hara

  12 Tips to Fire Up Your Sexy Time In Your 40s Welcome to the naughty forties! If you’ve just hit the big 4-0 now’s …

Read More →
featured image
App-controlled Sex Toys

The Best Pelvic Floor Trainers

Having a strong pelvic floor is really important. It’s not just for women who have given birth. Kegel exercises are important for everyone.    I’ve …

Read More →
libido feautured image
My Orgasmic Lifestyle

Do you need a supplement to boost your libido? Inno Drive for Her & Female Vitality Stack Review

I was asked to try Inno Drive for Her, a supplement that claims to boost female libido, balance hormones, offer mood and stress support as …

Read More →
App-controlled Sex Toys

Ohmibod App-Controlled Sex Toys

Valentine’s month marks a high point in the annual sex toy calendar. It could be my busiest time of year. When Valentine’s Day comes, I …

Read More →
Clitoral Stimulators

LILY 3 LELO Vibrator Review

Check out Lily 3, a personal massager from LELO, an evergreen product that has been improved to celebrate 20 years of LELO. It is available …

Read More →
OG Flow
Clitoral Stimulators

OG Flow from Tracy’s Dog Sex Toy Review

I know a lot about female orgasm but I don’t know a lot about squirting. All I know is that thanks to OG Flow from …

Read More →
App-controlled Sex Toys

LELO Ida Wave vs Soraya Wave: Sex Toy Comparison Review

They are both LELO products. They both vibrate and wave, providing vibrating stimulation to the clitoris and a waving motion to the G spot. Despite …

Read More →
lily 2
Clitoral Stimulators

Lily 2 – A Scented Clitoral Stimulator from LELO – Review

I’m thrilled to have acquired a new LILY 2 from LELO. I received my first one in 2015 when it was first released and it …

Read More →
App-controlled Sex Toys

Pearl3 from Kiiroo – An Interactive G Spot Vibrator – Review

I’ve just popped my Kiiroo cherry thanks to this review of Pearl3, an interactive G spot vibrator.    I’ve followed Kiiroo on social media for …

Read More →

Support My Work

Buy me a Coffee

l like my coffee to be organic and served in a big cup, filled to the brim. I like it quite strong, hot and with one spoon of brown sugar, preferably organic fair trade panela. No milk is needed. If you would like to buy a coffee (or three) please feel free to do so by clicking the link below.


If you would like to make a donation, now you can. Donations will go towards my business costs so that I can continue to make orgasmic content for you on a regular basis.

Scroll to Top
This site is registered on as a development site.