"My mission is to encourage others to use their sexual energy in an empowering way and to eat more plants."

Raising orgasmic awareness. Author. British expat in Spain. Sex toy tester & designer. Brand Ambassador for Satisfyer. YouTuber. Fetishist. Feminist. Vegan. Yogini. Zen. Creator of The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast. 

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What you can find on this website:


A complete glossary of fetishes with over 50 kinks. We all have a fetish, what’s yours?


Reviews and recommendations of the very best pleasure products by sex toy tester Venus O’Hara


A private area with the best photos. No text to distract you, just images.


Every day is a climax. Here I interview thought leaders in the fields of personal development, health, nutrition, spirituality, and more.


Articles on how to enhance your intimate relationships as well as dating tips for singles.


Discover my unique ASMR whispering affirmation meditations on a range of different topics from health, abundance, prosperity and sexual wellness.

In the Blog

Insatiable Insomnia
Erotic Stories

Insatiable Insomnia by Venus O’Hara

It’s late and I really should sleep. I have an important lunch appointment tomorrow. I imagine that I’ll turn up to it feeling absolutely exhausted. …

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A Guide to Dating
Sex & Relationships

A Guide to Dating in Your Golden Years

The moment you enter your 50s, you will come to realize that the dating pool has dwindled for people your age. Almost everyone has settled …

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Magic Motion Product Haul
App-controlled Sex Toys

Magic Motion Product Haul – The Future of Pleasure

I’m excited to introduce you to the world of Magic Motion, where technology and pleasure intersect in a unique way with a new technology that …

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In My Head
Erotic Stories

In My Head by Venus O’Hara

“I love your pussy,” says a lover as he spreads my thighs. I’m naked, lying on my unmade bed, facing up. He drools as he …

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Hot Desk
Erotic Stories

Hot Desk by Venus O’Hara

I love my job. Not only is it fun, but it also provides me with the lifestyle I desire the most. I am my own …

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Peachu Pink Punch App-controlled
App-controlled Sex Toys

Peachu Pink Punch App-controlled Clitoral Sucking Vibrator – Review

I am deeply passionate about organic fruits and vegetables. I’m also passionate about exploring the realm of pleasure products that enhance our intimate experiences. Therefore, …

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Erotic Stories

Fellatio Workshops by Venus O’Hara

‘Is it true that you used to give fellatio workshops?’ He asks me between kisses as we are lying on the sofa, locked in an …

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Sex with an Audience
Erotic Stories

Cunnilinguistic Curiosity by Venus O’Hara

The longing I feel as I’m about to share this story with you, dear listener, is almost unbearable. It’s driving me wild. I’m sitting in …

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Cultivating healthy
Sex & Relationships

How to Cultivate Healthy Relationships with Female Sexuality

Cultivating healthy sexual relationships with women can be difficult.  Unless you have a lot of experience sexually, you’ll likely struggle a great deal. Many people …

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reasons masturbate
Erotic Stories

Cherry-Popping Selfies by Venus O’Hara

I’ve taken many erotic selfies in my time. I’m certainly not shy about flaunting my charms and portraying myself as an erotic art object. I …

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All Tied Up
BDSM Stories

All Tied Up by Venus O’Hara

“Can I go to the bathroom?” I asked the photographer shortly after starting a bondage photoshoot. “Again? But you have just been! If I have …

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Erotic Stories

Seducing in Sweatpants – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

I love wearing sweatpants and a hoodie. Not only because they are super comfortable to wear, but also because it is the ideal garment to …

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