"My mission is to encourage others to use their sexual energy in an empowering way and to eat more plants."

Raising orgasmic awareness. Author. British expat in Spain. Sex toy tester & designer. Brand Ambassador for Satisfyer. YouTuber. Fetishist. Feminist. Vegan. Yogini. Zen. Creator of The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast. 

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What you can find on this website:


A complete glossary of fetishes with over 50 kinks. We all have a fetish, what’s yours?


Reviews and recommendations of the very best pleasure products by sex toy tester Venus O’Hara


A private area with the best photos. No text to distract you, just images.


Every day is a climax. Here I interview thought leaders in the fields of personal development, health, nutrition, spirituality, and more.


Articles on how to enhance your intimate relationships as well as dating tips for singles.


Discover my unique ASMR whispering affirmation meditations on a range of different topics from health, abundance, prosperity and sexual wellness.

In the Blog

app-controlled pelvic floor trainer
App-controlled Sex Toys

Perifit Care+ An App-Controlled Pelvic Floor Trainer – Review

I’m so excited to share this review of Perifit Care+, an app-controlled pelvic floor trainer with you. As someone who has tested several Perifit products, …

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Compatibility Test
Erotic Stories

Compatibility Test – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

Are we compatible?    Uncertainty lingers, particularly on his part. He says we come from different worlds, maybe too different to bridge the gap between …

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Clandestine Climax
Erotic Stories

Clandestine Climax – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

I hear the front door of my apartment close. He has gone out for the day and I am alone again.    I’m still in …

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Behind Me
Erotic Stories

Behind Me – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

He wants me on all fours. I smile to myself because I know exactly how this is going to unfold.  I love exploring and experiencing …

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At Your Mercy
BDSM Stories

At Your Mercy – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

What will you do with the power I’m bestowing upon you?    I’m eagerly anticipating how our total power exchange will unfold. While you are …

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About Last Night - An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara
Erotic Stories

About Last Night – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

I awaken in a dreamy daze, and as I turn to my right, I find you peacefully sleeping beside me. I snuggle up and delicately …

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Sex & Relationships

Why Sex Toy Makers Choose Bright Colors

Is the color of a sex toy important? It most definitely is! That’s why we spend a lot of time trying to find the perfect …

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Sex & Relationships

What Makes Strap-ons Great for Any Couple

Strap-ons turn the rules of the game on their head. It completely changes erotic dynamics and that’s one of the main reasons why so many …

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Sex & Relationships

Embarking on Lifestyle Enhancements: Discovering New Things as a Couple

Embarking on lifestyle enhancements as a couple can be an enriching journey that strengthens your bond and broadens your horizons. Whether you’re newlyweds seeking to …

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Tracy’s Dog
Clitoral Stimulators

Flowliper from Tracy’s Dog Clitoral Stimulator Review

Tracy’s Dog products always deliver high-quality pleasure. One of their products is one of the highest-rated sex toys on Amazon and one user even claimed …

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Bullet Vibrator
Bullet Vibrators

Promescent Vibe Together Bullet Vibrator Review

I must confess that the category of bullet vibrators isn’t my favourite pleasure product category. Oftentimes they have motors that are more buzzy than rumbly …

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Promescent Vibe Together Rabbit Vibrator

Promescent Vibe Together Rabbit Vibrator Review

Promescent has gained recognition for their renowned delay spray, a bestseller celebrated for its effectiveness in climax control for men. With thousands of positive reviews …

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