"My mission is to encourage others to use their sexual energy in an empowering way and to eat more plants."

Raising orgasmic awareness. Author. British expat in Spain. Sex toy tester & designer. Brand Ambassador for Satisfyer. YouTuber. Fetishist. Feminist. Vegan. Yogini. Zen. Creator of The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast. 

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What you can find on this website:


A complete glossary of fetishes with over 50 kinks. We all have a fetish, what’s yours?


Reviews and recommendations of the very best pleasure products by sex toy tester Venus O’Hara


A private area with the best photos. No text to distract you, just images.


Every day is a climax. Here I interview thought leaders in the fields of personal development, health, nutrition, spirituality, and more.


Articles on how to enhance your intimate relationships as well as dating tips for singles.


Discover my unique ASMR whispering affirmation meditations on a range of different topics from health, abundance, prosperity and sexual wellness.

In the Blog

Sex & Relationships

Lingam Massage & 30 Ways to Stimulate a Penis

Discover 30 ways to stimulate a penis. Lingam massage course on Beducated, a learning platform with high-quality courses to expand your sexual wellness knowledge and ...
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Waking Up With You
Erotic Stories

Waking Up With You – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

I wake up from a deep sleep, wondering about the time, but I’m too lazy to grab my phone and check. Lying on my left ...
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Erotic Stories

Vegan Blowjobs – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

You do something amazing with your tongue,’ a lover said to me when I was in the middle of the act of fellatio. I was ...
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Traffic in Paris
Erotic Stories

Traffic in Paris – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

In the heart of my university years studying French, an exciting opportunity unfolded—a yearlong internship in the vibrant city of Paris. This chapter, however, aligned ...
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Clitoral Stimulators

Flow by Osuga The World’s First Vibrator for Edging

I must confess that I was worried when I first heard about this product. The Osuga team contacted me and told me there was a ...
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The Writers’ Retreat
Erotic Stories

The Writers’ Retreat – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

Imagine a rural setting. It could be a valley, woodland, or mountains. Whatever it is, picture lush green surroundings with a view of water. It ...
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The Tip of The Iceberg
Erotic Stories

The Tip of The Iceberg – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

As someone who practises mindfulness, I understand the importance of living in the present. The here and now. But at this particular moment, my thoughts ...
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Erotic Stories

Suncream – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

I hate dates. They make me feel so nervous and awkward.    It all starts with liking someone’s photos, swiping and then chatting. During that ...
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App-controlled Sex Toys

Coh-nnection Air Pulse – Eden Fantasys – Review

When I first saw this sex toy from Eden Fantasys, it made me think of the painting ‘Ceci n’est pas une pipe’(translation: this is not ...
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Second Time Lucky
Erotic Stories

Second Time Lucky – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

The first time I had sex was a disaster.    It was over almost as soon as it had begun. This was because the guy, ...
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Pulse Queen
Clitoral Stimulators

Pulse Queen by Hot Octopuss Sex Toy Review

When I first set eyes on Pulse Queen by Hot Octopuss, I was reminded of the fact that I’m an objectophile. Objectophilia, or Object-Sexuality, is ...
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Erotic Stories

Salsa – An Erotic Story by Venus O’Hara

When I first danced salsa, I discovered that I had Latin fever. I got into it so much that I even became convinced that I ...
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